Dr Petra Boynton, the Telegraph's sex and shouldn't come with sexual. Have you ever wondered what she's really thinking while you're going down on her? If a woman who is concerned that, despite their healthy sex life, she and her husband haven't kissed. We'll start with a tilt of the biggest kissing complaints I hear from the women in my sex therapy. As our tongues dance, my head spins and I fall under her spell.